About this report
We've customized this report based on your answers to the test. Some results will be very accurate while others may miss the mark.
Who You Are
You're always exploring
You're a very balanced person. You have a talent for seeing beyond the details of day-to-day life. You refuse to settle long-term for a boring job or doing something just because it's expected of you. Love is the same way. Despite your natural charm, you can't pretend to care for someone if you're missing a deep connection. You're ready and able to experience romance and a powerful "spark" with someone special. Your biggest challenge may be finding time to connect given your busy (and often frantic) life.
What's dating all about to you?
You believe dating and life in general is about learning and growing as a person. You're a great listener, so women tend to enjoy going out with you. However, it's hard for you to have a real intellectual connection with an attractive woman. Hopefully, you've found a way to "go with the flow" in dating as you already do in other parts of your life.
You face two major challenges in finding the love of your life. First, because you're shy, you feel like you have to be someone else or "wear a mask" to go out and meet new people. You're left feeling like a distant observer, and women find it hard to truly understand you. Second, although having a vision of what you want can be helpful, the risk is that your high standards can get in the way of loving a real-life imperfect woman.
How unique is your type?
Your personality profile is similar to a number of men your age. Looking at over 10,000 men who have taken the test, about 13% (or 1 in 7 men) have very similar beliefs, values, and habits. Of course, the way these qualities are expressed in you is what makes you so unique.
How many other men have personalities like you?
Quirks women notice
Like all men, you have your strengths as well as your quirks and shortcomings. Ultimately, you want to find someone who will love and accept you "warts and all." Because you're a private person, it's especially important that you find a partner who understands.
Do women like your type?
- You have a pretty even-tempered personality and may not have any especially annoying or quirky habits. Of course, seeming to be "perfect" could be seen as a flaw by some, in which case you may just want to pretend to have a bad habit!
Notice that 40% of women are generally attracted to your personality type. 1% say they are VERY attracted. With the millions of people on Match.com, that translates into lots of potential matches.
How many women are attracted to your type?
Who You're Looking For
She'll be an enigma
You're looking for a shy, but very loving woman. She cares deeply about the people in her life, her work, hobbies, and the causes she fights for. She has an artistic side that can come out in painting, writing, or through relaxing activities like reading or watching. She's rather reserved and quiet, so she can be hard to get to know. But as you spend more one-on-one time with her, you'll discover an exceptionally kind and compassionate person. Like most women, she's not afraid of her emotions. Her feelings will often be expressed by her actions, gifts, or practical support rather than words. Given both of your needs for passion, it won't be surprising if the two of you experience an immediate passionate "spark" or connection.
Overall, it's important for you to be with someone who is almost always cheerful and has an optimistic outlook on life. The ideal person you're seeking shares a number of positive qualities with you, including:
No strong similarities were detected, which suggests that you may be more attracted to certain "opposite qualities." Please read the next sections to see if you may be seeking someone with different or opposite qualities to balance your own habits and style.
Number of women your type
Women with the exact type of personality you prefer are rare gems. Looking at over 10,000 women who have taken this test, only 5% (or 1 in 20 women) have the exact combination of similarities and contrasts in personality you find extremely appealing.
However, there's a larger group, 19% (or 1 in 5 women), who have most, but not all, of the qualities and habits you like. These subgroups are charted below.
More than One-third of the women have at least some of the traits you find attractive.
But you'd have a negative reaction to 7% (or 1 in 14 women), who have some or many of the characteristics you clearly dislike.
How many women are your "ideal" type?
Finding someone like you
You want to share your life with someone who has the same values, goals, and style you have. Research has shown that couples who have more in common tend to stay together longer. The qualities you find attractive (and unattractive) in women suggest you would certainly be happier with a woman who's more like you.
Quirks you can tolerate
No very strong opposites were detected, which suggests that you are most attracted to women who are very similar to you. This is good news since similar couples tend to stay together longer.
The truth is that everyone is potentially "high maintenance." We all have our quirks and shortcomings. The key to long-term harmony is finding a woman who can tolerate (or maybe even enjoy) your "quirks," or the little personal oddities that make you unique. You seem okay with several common quirks that might come along with your "ideal" woman:
Downside of your "ideal"
You described a pretty balanced person as most attractive to you, so no strong quirks were noted. Watch out for quirks during dating, since they may indicate a strong quality that is hidden at first.
In addition to her quirks, your "ideal" personality type may have other qualities that are more frustrating or challenging to deal with. Under stress, her quirks can become serious "flaws." But remember, these quirks are the "flip side of the coin," or the extreme end of qualities you otherwise find appealing. So, be prepared if:
Because you're most attracted to women with balanced personalities, no troubling differences were noted. Nevertheless, remember that too much similarity can lead to conflict as well, especially when problems call for very different perspectives or actions.
You seem ready to adapt to the good and frustrating qualities of the women you're looking for, but there are types of women you clearly do NOT like. Women's habits and attitudes you'd have a hard time putting up with include:
Trade-offs you'll face
Women who rarely open up completely and share their true feelings about the issues and events in your lives.
|Cares deeply for a few very close friends.
||Has little desire to branch out and meet new people.
|Tries to balance a creative and imaginative side, with "real world" pragmatics about what you can and cannot do.
||Promising ideas are often dropped if they don't succeed right away.
|Sensitivity to emotions promotes greater insight and compassion for you and others.
||Emotions can cloud judgment and thinking.
|Tries to be decisive, but still not rush into anything.
||How much attention is given to problems and how decisions get made seems unpredictable.
Good sex is important to you, but it's only one of many ways you connect with your partner. To you, life is about finding balance, and a romantic and satisfying sex life is a key part of your vision.
Among men your age, your particular combination of sexual drive and interests is similar to about 1 in 6 men (16%).
Is she sexually compatible?
You're looking for someone just like you, who values the quality of sex over the quantity. You want someone who would never pressure you about sex.
What's ahead for you sexually?
A good sexual match plays a key role in your "ideal" relationship. Your only risk is to have sex get too comfortable; too predictable. Since you're naturally calm and rational during fights, you miss out on great "make-up" sex! If you can bring your natural creativity and imagination to the bedroom, your sex life will never be boring.
What is personality?
Personality is the set of traits and characteristics that make each of us unique yet relatively stable and consistent over time.
- People see and interpret the world differently.
- They want different things.
- They make decisions differently.
- They get excited and energized by different situations.
- They structure their careers, social life, and private time in different ways.
What does personality have to do with attraction?
The way in which people are similar or different in personality strongly affects their attraction to one another. Two people with similar values are more likely to become (and stay) friends or a couple, indeed part of compatibility is having "common ground." However, for many people, compatibility may also involve a balance between each other's quirks and differences.
Where did the test come from?
The test you just took is the most scientifically grounded and customized personality assessment on the Internet. It's a "smart" test because it can tailor specific questions to you based on your earlier choices so no one gets exactly the same questions. The content of the tests and the game-like way the choices were presented are the result of over 15 years of research by the scientists at weAttract.com, Inc.
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